I’ve been reading old posts this past week, which is kind of embarrassing. I try so hard to write with a dramatic flair but it always goes over like a lead balloon. I know that each person is their own worst critic and that blog posts will *always* suffer from that little time invested in editing and revision, but it’s still hard on the system.
am i being too hard on myself? definitely. will i stop being hard on myself? nope.
i leave you with a great poem: Ginsberg’s A Supermarket in California. I’ve cited it once or twice in the past, so you may have seen me post this clip before. It came to mind yesterday after a great conversation I had with the new is the true about america.
Ah, dear father, graybeard, lonely old courage-teacher
What America did you have when Charon quit poling his ferry and
You got out on a smoking bank and stood watching the boat disappear on the black waters of Lethe?
I let a couple domains lapse this winter. Part of me was more than willing to let them go since I haven’t done anything with them for years. But now I regret it because they represent things I could have done.
I’m generally past the “oh the things I could have done!” feeling since I’ve done a lot and have got some neat tales to tell. But every now and again the potential/loss dichotomy rears its ugly head. if there’s one thing that prevents me from finding my own personal zen, it’s got to be this feeling of not being satisfied with my deeds.
A few years ago, i had taken a short trip with some friends. We were driving home and had been on the road for a couple hours.; the night was beginning to settle in on the highway and we had become stircrazy from the travel hours and hours ago. To pass the time, some one decided to play quiz-games, the kind where you ask everyone in the car a question and discuss the results. You’ve played these games before. What’s your favourite movie? Where do you want to travel? What’s your favourite season? Some one asked a big question, though, something out of the ordinary. What do you want to be if you could be anything else? I said, “poet.”
Today, the Irons Government introduced the Austerity Measures 2011 Act to the House. Opposition members grimly accepted that deep cuts were necessary to all ministries and their services if the Treasury were to sustain this fiscal crisis. Meanwhile, outside the Houses of Parliament, students revolted in the street. All the way to Whitehall, Bobbys had to bludgeon the protesters to maintain some semblance of order.
For BBC News, this is Alistair Cookie, reporting.
If ever you get to fly Icelandair, make sure you bring some decent headphones with you. The air carrier has an excellent in-cabin radio system with a large number of stations to listen to. One was an “Icelandic Music” sampler. On the flight home, I wrote down most of the songs and gave the quickest of ratings to them.
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Here’s a list of the bands with my notes:
- Band: Ampop
- Song: January
- Album: Made for..
- My Notes: MNML. Check it out. 3 1/2 stars
- Band: Apparat Organ
- Album: Apparat Organ
- My Notes: Atmosphere. [legomen] check it. 4 stars.
- Band: Blindfold
- Song: Falleg Depuro
- Album: Faking Dreams
- My Notes:Like Boards of Canafa meets John Lemain’s pop group. meh. 2 stars
- Band: Bloodgroup
- Song:My Arms
- Album: Dry Arms
- My Notes: Click tracks & pop vocals. good. 3 stars
- Band: Egill Saebjörnsson
- Album: Egill S
- My Notes: singer-songwriter, but darker instead of happy-lovey. 3 stars.
- Band: Feldberg
- Album: Don’t Be A…
- My Notes: sunny dreamy weekend at home. LA may like, too. Check “Farewell”. 3 stars
- Band: Hjálmar
- Album: IV
- My Notes: Jazzy-Reggae-Folk? neat once or twice? 2 stars
- Band: Hjaltalín
- Song: Suitcase Man
- Album: Terminal
- My Notes: SOUNDS LIKES SOUNDTRACK MUSIC sometimes. Dark. Then fun. Then Bond-like. varied in a good way. 4 stars.
- Band: J Jóhannson
- Album: Dis
- My Notes: Kraftwerk clicks with more melody. Guitar, too. & fuzz. 4 stars. atmosphere.
- Band: Jonsi
- Album: Go
- My Notes: Atmospheric but uneven? Requires further listen. 2 1/2 stars
- Band: Lára Rúnarsdóttir
- Album: Surprise
- My Notes: Fun times Pop? for LA? 2 stars
- Band: Lay Low
- Album: Farewell Goodbye
- My Notes: smoky dirty café (great voice more than anything else!) 3 1/2 stars √
- Band: Blue Laggoon Soundtrack #2
- My Notes: VA
- Band: Our Lives
- Album: We Lost The…
- My Notes: 2stars. Atmo-pop
- Band: Påll Oskar
- My Notes: Dance w/ Flutes & Disco! 2 1/2 stars
- Band: Rökkurró
- Album: þaó Kólnar…
- My Notes: Atmosphere pop meets folky accordions of some sort + Icelandic pop = cool. 3 1/2 stars
- Band: Sudden Weather Change
- Album: Stop!
- My Notes:Atmospher + Rock = symphonic/Wall of Sound/Almost. Check it out/more listen? 3 1/2 stars
- Band: Sykur
- Album: Frabært…
- My Notes:Kraftwerk, updated. So far, so good 4 stars
- Icelandic Airwaves Tunes to Find. These are song titles by VA!
- Lay Down in the Tall Grass
That’s the end of the Icelandic music love in. It was followed by some reminders:
- Jean-Michel Jarre
- Geometry of Love.
- HEAVEN SOUNDS LIKE MORRISSEY / SUEDEHEAD
- oh, so many illustrations
- THE SOUNDTRACK for my funeral [i..e, my life on earth,] is AIR / LA FEMME d’ARGENT
Some general notes:
- I can’t remember why I appended the square brackets to my note about funeral soundtracks. I do recall adding the bracket after writing the sentence. I think it may have to do with differentiating between the sounds of Heaven (Suedehead) and the sounds of my wake (La femme d’argent).
- Jean-Michel Jarre is not Icelandic music. He was listed in the “Ambient” radio listings (as well as Air). I wrote down this album since I’ve listened to it in the past.
- Jonsi is Jonsi Birgisson, of Sigur Ros.
- “John Lemain’s pop group” should be read as “John Mullane ‘s group, In-flight Safety. (I was too tired to remember anything at this point..) I worked with John for a month or two on a catering gig just before the band became big. Not my kind of music, but props to them for sticking it out.
- “Blue Laggoon” [sic] is actually the Blue Lagoon, a geo-thermal spa outside of Reykjavik. It’s kinda touristy, but very must worth the trip.
- If you’re curious, yes, I can pronounce some of the odd-looking letters, such as the ash (æ) and thorn (þ) (Thank you, ENG 240Y, Old English, at Uni College, U of T). That doesn’t mean I could understand anything, though.
Some music notes:
- Iceland has a serious music scene. I’ve heard twice that aside form being a great cultivator of local music, a lot of bands stop in Reykjavik and play gigs there in order to offset the cost of travel across the Atlantic. It may be only a story but it doesn’t change the good vibes in this town.
- There is a wicked music store you should check out if you head to RVK, called 12 Tónar. 12 Tónar has their own record label. They’re great fellows in there. You’re welcome to listen to anything in the store in some real comfortable couches and chairs… and they serve you espresso!
- RVK has a music festival called Iceland Airwaves. We missed it by a week – sadness. Check it out.
- While looking for URLs for these bands, I found two strong resources online for Icelandic Music:
I believe that perfectionists are incredibly insecure people. Perfectionists self-identify with their condition: they understand and know that they can’t achieve their ideal even though they try so hard to do so. They want completion even though completion is a fantasy, a myth. But rather than allowing themselves to accept this condition and move forward with their lives, this understanding festers and becomes a lack. Perfectionists can’t ever be happy with their work. The incomplete nature of it haunts them, it shames them.
I’ve only recently begun to understand the ramifications of this relationship (effect: insecurity; cause: perfectionism). Now that I have a little bit more time on my hands, I’m becoming more creative again with my writing. No longer must I write only essays or write only for work. Now I can write in whatever mode I choose, and I can write for pleasure. Putting the pen to paper has sometimes been difficult, though, because of this perfectionist insecurity. I’m haunted by the apparant lack in my writing. Even when I write for no audience but myself (i.e., when it really is paper that i inscribe with a pen, as opposed to a blog post), I fret on what my words are missing as opposed to what beauty or rhetoric they might contain.
I’m trying to figure out the causes for this perfectionism beyond simple “insecurity”. I think a large part of it has been my years and years of schooling in the humanities. The arts taught me to write well (and I’m a superb writer when I want to be), and my work teaching writing and rhetoric sharpened my own writing skills as I helped others improve their abilities with the written word. However, writing in the arts is always marked by evaluation. An essay is meant to be a container for an excellent argument, but often (and especially in literature, philosophy, and history) it becomes an integral part of the work itself and is therefore evaluated as much as the ideas it conveys. I’ve spent nearly ten years writing “A” and “A-” papers, which are marks of excellence in the arts, but these marks – as all marks are – highlight what a work lacks; they focus on what prevents the work from being perfect or ideal. I like to write, and I like to be creative, but since my act of writing has for so long been tied to scholastic ambition and evaluation, I tend to focus on apparent (or perceived) deficiencies instead of achievements.
This insecurity – as foolish as it may be – prevents me from writing more than I would like and more than I should. It stifles my creative output since I constantly second-guess my words. It also impedes my desire to write publicly. For years I’ve written on the Internet with a pseudonym (and I still do, you have noticed) in order to avoid criticism and evaluation. I look at my friends who write and write freely on the web with their real names and I wonder why I can’t find the courage to do the same. I think it’s because I evaluate my own words by considering the public opinions of academics who would have graded my works inside and outside of the classroom and I wonder if they would throw off my prose as purple or my essays as not ready for prime time.
This situation may have changed this week, though. Now that I’m “in the workforce” and have a lot of free time in the evenings, I have more time to write. And now that my workplace is filled with people with different backgrounds who all consider themselves writers of one kind or another (including not only academics but also authors, journalists, and public relations professionals), I’m beginning to feel that I don’t have to judge my work by the one and only measure I have been for the last ten years or so. There are other measures that are perfectly valid (excuse the pun), so I shouldn’t inhibit my own creative output on account of my misguided perceptions of the opinions others may have of my words.
i’m thinking of getting in touch with some recruiters this week. please don’t get the wrong thought about the workplace because of this statement – for the most post i like my current job and the people i work with (however lonely the office can be at times). but the economic climate worries me. halifax is a government town, and the cash crunch that hit the private sector for the past two years is going to hit the public sector this year and next now that the public spending tap has been closed. my job is not permanent. it’s contract. and though the people i work with like me and seem to like the work i do, i need to make sure i’m don’t leave myself hung out to dry, so to speak. (wow, a reflexive use of an idiom.)
so i’m thinking about recruiters since it gives me a chance to compile a dossier (check – this has been up to date for two years now) and then hand it overs to others. i’m not interested into scanning job ads every single day of the week right now – not until we’re much closer to the end of my contract -but if i can convince some recruiters that i’m worth my salt, then maybe something may come of it between now and then… who knows. etc etc.
Some of you are privately asking me what an AT-AT is. To get an answer, you’ll have to either watch Empire Strikes Back or look at the photos of my recently shorn cat, Hastings.
The full slideshow is here, but I’ll draw your attention to a few photos so you can see what I’m talking about when I say he’s equal parts kitten, rat, and AT-AT.
Perhaps the resemblance isn’t as noticeable as I’d like it to be with still images. I’ll try to get some video of the handsome man (that the cat, not the AT-AT) while he’s strutting about the house with his Gigantico legs so you can see what i’m talking about.